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Red Nose Day 2019

Red Nose Day is about bringing people together to have fun, raise money and change the lives of kids who need our help the most.   Sounds, and is, a great idea.  Childhood should be the time of our lives when we are surrounded by love, empowerment and balance but in many families that is not […]

March 15, 2019 in CBT, children, Counselling, counselling via skype, couples counselling, Domestic violence, Online Counselling, relationship counselling, Relationships, Sexual abuse, Skype Therapy, Stress by

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Quit smoking but avoid the pot holes!

Everywhere we turn we are faced with signs asking us to Quit Smoking.  There is a national campaign  to provide smokers with all the evidence to persuade them that smoking is bad for their health and to cease in their own best interests and we have  large scale offerings of how to do that.  We […]

March 13, 2019 in Addiction, Anger, Counselling, Depression, News, Psychotherapy, Relationships by

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UNIVERSITY MENTAL HEALTH DAY

We all find big decisions concerning (they wouldn’t be big decisions if they weren’t) and gearing up as a young adult to get the best possible start to the rest of our lives sounds a pretty responsible thing to do.  However, when the pressure we, and others, put on ourselves to ‘get it right first […]

March 7, 2019 in Addiction, Anxiety, Counselling, Counselling online, counselling via skype, Skype Counselling, Skype Therapy, Stress by

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DO YOU SUFFER FROM ANXIETY?

Firstly, you are not alone.  Secondly, if you have been battling with your anxiety alone for a while it’s time to get some help as you might have thought you had lost some battles to control it but you can win the war! There are all sorts of anxiety Social, Health, General, OCD, etc etc. […]

March 4, 2019 in Anxiety, Panic Attacks, Stress by

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DO YOU USE FOOD AS A COPING MECHANISM?

There are a number of reasons why we use food as a coping mechanism: To fit in and feel accepted An subconscious plea for others to see our internal pain without speaking the words An subconscious plan for us to be invisible so that we won’t be ‘seen’ and the hurt prolonged To feel we […]

February 25, 2019 in Addiction, Depression, Uncategorized by

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Counselling – No Just Talking in Haywards Heath or Online!

I am still surprised how by just talking about a worry can make the World a nicer place for us to be.  It also never ceases to frustrate me how we are still are so backward about coming forward if we have some emotional sadness that we haven’t overcome. If we have a physical ailment […]

February 13, 2019 in Addiction, Anger, Counselling, Depression, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Uncategorized by

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ARE YOU ANGRY AND IF SO ARE YOU SMOULDERING OR EXPLOSIVE?

Anger is a basic emotion that we are born with.  It can be both a good and a bad thing.  It can be indiscriminate fireworks or a cancerous bundle of resentment.  Anger in its pure form can be something that can empower us to do something and make changes.  However, depending on how much we […]

January 28, 2019 in Anger, CBT, Counselling, Counselling online, counselling via skype, Domestic violence, english counsellors for ex-pats, Face to Face Counselling in Haywards Heath, relationship counselling, Skype Counselling, Skype Therapy by

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Ideas for New Year Resolutions 2019

Most years we all make resolutions that most of us don’t keep.  Many of us often say “this year things are going to change”.  However things don’t change.  We do.  If relationships etc are not going so well sometimes it isn’t just about changing them it is also figuring out what is going on with […]

December 27, 2018 in Uncategorized by

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A Christmas Gift Idea For You

Christmas you either love it or hate it.  Isn’t it strange that the Christmas (and other holidays too) are both enjoyed and feared in equal measure.  It is a time for families & celebrations and togetherness & sharing.  But for some those very thoughts make them fearful or sad.  As the World has opened up […]

December 13, 2018 in Uncategorized by

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A Star Is Born 2018 – A story of Love, Loss and Addiction

I first saw this movie when it came out in 1976. At that time it was sad but I hadn’t “lost” then so like a lot of what we see and hear it didn’t resonate. This version depicts a great love and a family torn apart by addiction and this certainly resonated as I know […]

December 2, 2018 in Addiction, Counselling, counselling via skype, Face to Face Counselling in Haywards Heath, Relationships by

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